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7 Ways To Beat Depression

7 Ways To Beat Depression

1. Get Outside

Experts are now investigating two things for depression: exercise and sunlight. Research shows that getting outside helps combat the symptoms of depression. The sun is one of the best remedies for the blues because the rays contain UVA which stimulates the production of vitamin D. Don’t go for the gym, with the stale air and crowded environment. Instead, opt for the great outdoors. Avoid using sunglasses, as the eyes absorb the necessary rays needed to produce serotonin. Try to spend at least 20 minutes each day outdoors doing some form of outdoor physical activity.

2. Stay Social

Withdrawal from social activities, as well as friends and family, is one of the hallmark symptoms of depression. When we are feeling down or depressed about our lives, we tend to withdraw from others and retreat into our negative thoughts and feelings. To fight off depression, make sure that you surround yourself with a solid support network of friends and family with whom you have regular, weekly contact. These friends and family members will serve to keep you motivated and engaged in everyday life.

3. Aerobic Exercise

You don’t have to be a marathon runner to get aerobic exercise. Brisk walking is good for the heart and soul, as is jogging. Clinical studies found that regular exercise wards off the blues by increasing energy. Also, physical activity helps you release stress and reduce tension. Exercise keeps the body healthy and improves your mental thinking. Doctors recommend that you get at least 30 minutes of exercise three or four times each week.

4. Omega-3 Fatty Acids

The news is full of reports regarding the benefits of omega-3 fatty acids. These nutritional components aid in the brain’s neuron connectivity. A recent Harvard University study found a link between increased levels of omega-3 fatty acids and a decrease in depression. You can find them in fish, free range meats, and nuts. Many find it easier, however, to take capsules available at health food stores.

5. Change Your Sleep Routine

Alter your sleeping habits so that you have an environment conducive with a good night’s rest. Be sure to go to bed at the same time every night and turn the lights off. Avoid activities at bedtime that increase the heart rate, like watching action TV or listening to loud music. Instead, take a warm bath, listen to soft, classical music, and read a book. Also, avoid alcohol and caffeine because it interferes with sleep. Experts recommend at least 7 and a half hours of shut-eye each night.

6. Meditation and Yoga

One of the best ways to overcome depression is meditation and yoga. Neuroscientists now recognize these ancient practices for alleviating the worrisome symptoms of depression, as well as anxiety. Meditation and yoga work by adjusting your brain’s activity from the anxiety-prone right front cortex to the calmer left side. This shift promotes concentration, improves cognition and memory, and relaxes the body and mind.

7. Be Brave and find a Therapist.

Recognize that you may need professional support to manage depression.  Sadly many people avoid it and suffer unecessarily. The most common reason people avoid seeking the help of a therapist is the belief that it will mean they are weak, incapable of solving problems on their own, or that they are simply “crazy.” But it goes beyond that. People often are afraid of how they’d feel if others saw them this way—namely worthless, flawed, or unlovable. Owning you need help is smart. Asking for help is brave.

 

55 celebrities talking about their depression, anxiety & mental health

55 celebrities talking about their depression, anxiety & mental health

Mental health has been described as a “slow-growing epidemic” and the number of people dealing with it has increased by 10 per cent in the last 10 years.

The worst thing about it is that it doesn’t discriminate- anyone can be affected by it.

Check out 51 of the biggest celebrities in showbiz talking about their experiences with mental health, depression or anxiety.

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‘I brushed my hair today’: Viral post shows what depression feels like

‘I brushed my hair today’: Viral post shows what depression feels like

After a month of crippling depression, Katelyn Marie Todd started feeling better and realized she needed to tame her knotty, dirty hair. After the teenager finished, she felt particularly proud of herself so Todd — who has struggled with major depressive disorder over the past seven years — shared her experience on Facebook.

“I brushed my hair today. For the first time in 4 weeks. It was matted and twisted together. It snapped and tore with every stroke. I cried while I washed and conditioned it, because I forgot how it felt to run my fingers through it,” she wrote.

The post has been shared almost 300,000 times and Todd, 17, thinks it’s “wild.” But the Georgia teen is glad that by sharing her vulnerabilities she has inspired others.

“I had thousands of comments saying my post helped them in some way and it feels really amazing,” she told TODAY. “The most important thing that I got from the whole experience was the idea that I was not alone.”

Dr. Ken Duckworth says he’s not surprised that so many people responded positively to Todd’s message because it illustrates what depression can be like.

“She breaks it down to very human terms … her experience is powerful,” said the medical director of the National Alliance on Mental Illness. “I am hoping it will shed a little light on depression.”

Depression remains one of the most common mental illnesses; experts believe that 17 percent of people will experience in their lives. The National Institute of Mental of Health estimates that 6.7 U.S. adults experienced one major depressive episode in the past year.

Katelyn Marie Todd’s post about her life with depression has gone viral and she feels glad her experiences have helped other.

“We have all either experienced major depression or love or care about someone who has. It is more common than we think,” said Dr. Pierre Azzam, psychiatrist at Western Psychiatric Institute and Clinic of UPMC. “We all experience sadness … but usually when we are talking about depression medically we are talking about major depressive disorder.”

Major depressive disorder certainly differs from that occasional blue mood. People with depression have compromised functioning and at least two weeks of experiencing five of nine symptoms, including:

  1. Changes in appetite
  2. Loss of interest in once-enjoyable things
  3. Changes in sleep
  4. Sad, hopeless feelings
  5. Loss of energy
  6. Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
  7. Inability to concentrate
  8. Thoughts of death or suicide
  9. Feelings of extreme restlessness or fatigue

Despite how common depression is, people often avoid seeking help, thinking it might get better in time. But experts urge people to visit a doctor if they suspect they have it.

“Very often people think depression is a moral weakness but it is a biological disorder that can be treated,” said Dr. Lilian Gonsalves, psychiatrist at the Cleveland Clinic. “Eighty percent of the time depression is a treatable illness.”

Treatment often includes a combination of medication and psychotherapy along with healthy habits, including regular sleep, a good diet, exercise, and socializing regularly. This last part can be tricky because as Todd indicated, depression causes people to push away others.

Courtesy of Katelyn Marie Todd

Some people criticized Katelyn Marie Todd for not looking depressed all the time. She hopes people learn from her experience that depression doesn’t have a look.

“Depression is having 3 friends that are only still around because they have the patience and love of a saint,” Todd wrote. “Depression is making your family cry because they think you don’t love them anymore when you’re distant and distracted.”

Duckworth is unsure whether sharing on social media helps people working through mental health problems, but he knows that when people share their feelings, they feel more connected.

“Silence and shame are two key problems in addressing mental health problems,” he told TODAY.

At the end of the post, Todd urges people to “please be easy on your friends and family that have trouble,” which is one of the most important ideas she wanted to share. Being isolated made it much harder for her.

“For years, I felt like I had no one to talk to,” she told TODAY. “I still couldn’t convey it quite perfectly so no one really got the full idea of what I was feeling and it was really lonely. And I don’t want anyone else to feel lonely like that.”

 

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How Therapy Became A Hobby Of The Wealthy, Out Of Reach For Those In Need

How Therapy Became A Hobby Of The Wealthy, Out Of Reach For Those In Need

APRIL DEMBOSKY

 

When mental health professionals don’t take insurance, only the wealthy can afford their help.

There’s something that really bothers Stanford psychiatry professor Keith Humphreys. When he thinks of all the years he has spent training the next generation of psychiatrists, the enormous investment in medical school and residency, he wants those doctors to devote that education to taking care of people with serious mental illness.

But, he says, many of them instead set up a private practice, where they can charge $400 an hour in cash to help people who Humphreys calls “the worried well” –- people who enjoy the self-exploration of therapy but don’t necessarily have a mental health problem.

“A minute I spend training that person is a minute of my life wasted,” Humphreys says. “That very well-trained person should be taking care of very, very troubled people. When they don’t, everyone who needs that care loses out.”

Humphreys says this trend of mental health clinicians shunning the health insurance industry and decamping to the cash market dates back 70 years, to the end of World War II.

In 1946, the majority of veterans cared for by what was then called the Veterans Administration were mental health patients, Humphreys says. But there weren’t enough psychologists and psychiatrists to take care of them. So the VA partnered with several universities, including Stanford, to train mental health professionals.

The VA became the largest employer of psychologists, and those schools started turning out hundreds and hundreds of psychologists a year. The expansion dovetailed with soaring American affluence — and soaring American interest in self-exploration.

Having a psychoanalyst became “a sort of status symbol,” Humphreys says.

A lot of psychologists who were trained to work in the public sector saw a better financial opportunity and jumped ship. They hung shingles and started their own private practices where they could charge wealthy people much higher rates.

“When you put in a free market in a society where people were very interested in self-exploration, a lot of them went out and did their own thing,” Humphreys says.

The reason this was possible is because of how the overall U.S. health care system was established, Humphreys says. Most people got their health insurance through work. Employers competed with each other for the best employees by offering better benefits.

“When you put in a free market in a society where people were very interested in self-exploration, a lot of them went out and did their own thing,” says Stanford psychiatry professor Keith Humphreys.

So the standards for coverage developed over time in a piecemeal, haphazard way.

As health policy evolved, mental health benefits continuously lagged, Humphreys says. Coverage for mental health treatments or hospitalizations was meager or nonexistent.

“We don’t seem to have this problem with cardiology or oncology,” Humphreys says. “You don’t see people lining up to pay cash for those services because the benefits are so low.”

This wouldn’t happen in places that have single-payer health systems, like Canada, Humphreys says, because all the health care payments are controlled by the government. Mental health care was baked into that system earlier on. But in the U.S., he says, “If it’s a market where you pretty much have to pay for yourself, the rich are always going to win.”

The growing workforce of psychiatrists, psychologists, marriage and family therapists, and licensed social workers has responded to that market demand.

And not just because it’s better money. Treating high-functioning professionals in a private office is a lot less stressful than doing rounds on a psychiatric ward in a public hospital.

Especially in affluent places like the San Francisco Bay Area, this creates a divide, a culture of mental health haves and have-nots. Mental health clinicians don’t need to participate in the health care system or take insurance to keep their schedules full — making it harder and harder for people of lower income to find a therapist.

“That’s why you can have a lot of mental health professionals in an area, but still have a shortage of care for people in need,” Humphreys adds. “The person who’s hurt is the person who’s suicidal, maybe they’re horribly addicted to OxyContin or their child is showing signs of bipolar disorder, and they can’t find somebody to take their insurance. It’s unjust.”

Mental health advocates have worked to shift this balance, passing the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act of 2008 and the Affordable Care Act in 2010. Together, those laws require health plans to offer mental health coverage on par with other medical coverage.

But so far, it hasn’t put a dent in the cash market for mental health. Humphreys says given the nature of mental health care and the American obsession with self-improvement, the cash market will be here to stay.

“Accessing mental health care is often pleasurable and enjoyable, and accessing a lot of other health care isn’t,” Humphreys says. “I mean, who goes to the dentist for fun?” As grateful as we are for dentists — nobody.

This story is part of a reporting partnership with NPR, KQED and Kaiser Health News.

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HOW VIDEO GAMES CAN HELP WITH DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY

HOW VIDEO GAMES CAN HELP WITH DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY

 

Depression and anxiety can be huge obstacles for many of us. Whether you’re struggling with mild depression and/or anxiety, or you feel buried by it, it can be challenging not only to discuss it with others, but finding a way out can seem nearly impossible. Luckily, things are changing, and more and more methods of treatment are being developed for depression, anxiety, and other mental health-related issues. What’s even more exciting is that people are starting to realize how helpful video games can be for those people who struggle with mood disorders or mental illness. That’s right, actual scientists and doctors are seeing medically beneficial reasons for people to play video games.

What a time to be alive, amirite?

But really, it’s amazing that science is starting to understand how to use video games to help people struggling with mental illness. Of course, as with anything, moderation is key here. We all know someone, have heard of someone, or have experienced gaming addiction for ourselves first hand. So while using a video game to help a person overcome anxiety or depression can be effective, it’s also important to keep tabs on and moderate the amount of game therapy being used. Don’t expect to find yourself heading home from therapy with a doctor-ordered 8 hour WoW session in your future. Sorry, kids.

You can find a variety of benefits from different types of games. Whether you’re just playing puzzle games on your phone or going all out with an Oculus Rift, there’s something out there to help assist you in managing your depression or anxiety.

MMORPG AND CO-OP GAMES

MMORPGs (Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Games) and online co-op games can be extremely helpful for kids with social anxiety. When paired with actual face-to-face interaction, kids can use the game to help initiate relationships in a low-risk environment, work as a team, and start picking up on social cues. Learning Works for Kids recommends setting your kid up with games like Star Wars: Old Republic and Mario games to help them become more comfortable in social situations. While this method can also be good for adults, not having parental supervision means you run the risk of losing a whole day to gaming and not following up the online interactions with real life interactions.

PUZZLES

Studies show that casual, puzzle games can actually help lower stress and anxiety and help your mood. Playing a causal game like Bejeweled or other low-key puzzle games can help with those things because playing them causes a reduction in distractions. More and more scientists are attributing anxiety to the huge numbers of distractions we’re faced with every day. Playing a puzzler like Bejeweled, Peggle, and even Candy Crush can force you to focus on one thing and greatly reduce outside distractions–ultimately helping you feel less anxious. This one probably won’t work if you’re smack in the middle of a blinding anxiety attack, but having one or two of these games on your phone can help you keep yourself calm if you start to feel your anxiety rising.

REPRESENTATIONS OF DEPRESSION

One of the hardest things about depression is getting a non-depressed person to understand what you’re going through. It can be exhausting to explain why you can’t just “cheer up” and that what you’re feeling is more than just “the blues”. Games that operate as actual representations of depression can not only help you better explain what you’re going through more effectively, but seeing your struggle recreated by someone you’ve never even met can help you feel less alone and better understood. Games that do a great job at this include Depression Quest–a choose your own adventure game that let’s you walk through the life of a depressed person–and Elude–a game that offers metaphorical representations of emotional landscapes.

OCULUS RIFT

When you’re having an anxiety attack around another person, the thing you tend to hear the most–apart from “What’s happening? What’s wrong?” if that person has never seen an anxiety attack before–is the reminder to take deep breaths. While there is a ton going on in your brain in the midst of an anxiety attack, breathing exercises can be super beneficial to help you regain control. Owen Harris, a game developer in Ireland, developed a game using Oculus Rift called Deep that essentially leads you into breathing exercises as you experience a peaceful, underwater world that responds to your breaths. The deeply immersive virtual reality experience of the underwater world can help you center your focus and relax–seriously, you don’t even need to move a single appendage. Deep is all about breathing–calm, relaxing breathing.

Mental illness can be a tough monster for anyone to fight, and the social stigma that often accompanies mental illness can make someone’s struggle even more challenging. Thankfully, more and more people are starting to talk about their struggles, and doctors are finding new, creative, and effective ways to treat conditions like depression and anxiety. It’s incredibly exciting that many of our favorite pastime can actually be used to do something productive (though I argue that saving Skyrim from dragons is highly productive, but whatever…).

Have you found that gaming helps you handle your depression and/or anxiety? What games are the most helpful for you? Let me know in the comments! And if you are struggling with depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, or just need some help, contact us or the live chat on the National Suicide Prevention website to talk to someone. 

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Mental Health Treatment Is A Privilege Many People Can’t Afford

Mental Health Treatment Is A Privilege Many People Can’t Afford

 Minaa B LMSW, Founder of Respect Your Struggle

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I previously shared my truth about my battle with depression and self-injury in a piece I wrote titled “An Open Letter to Black Women About Mental Health.” Not only did I openly share my experiences with depression, but I urged other black women to break away from the cultural stigma surrounding mental illness, to rid themselves of the weight that comes with carrying the “strong black woman” title and to seek professional treatment for their struggles.

I took some time out to re-read my letter, and I realized that there is a fundamental piece that was missing. When I wrote it, I felt as if I were hitting the nail on the head, but I wasn’t focused on the foundation that nail was going into. If I am going to address a community to seek professional help, I need to address those who drive the mental health care system to understand how to tend to — as well as make themselves available to — this particular community.

There are so many folks living behind the looking glass who fail to recognize or comprehend the contemporary social problems that people from minority backgrounds encounter just for being human — racism, prejudice, discrimination, criminalization and deep-seated cultural stereotypes, to name a few. These collective societal issues are just as detrimental to our well-being as the “strong black woman” supposition, and such matters are linked to the prevalence of mental illness, particularly trauma, within minority and African-American communities.

As a woman who identifies as African-American and was once diagnosed with severe depression, I experienced several personal barriers to treatment not solely due to shame and stigma, but also due to my lack of knowledge around mental health, the lack of African-American treatment providers within the mental health scope, and most importantly, the cost of mental health services. Studies show that African-American patients are more likely to pursue African-American providers, as their commonality in regards to race helps to create a therapeutic relationship where the client feels accepted and understood, and the provider is more attune to culturally sensitive issues. This cultural match between patient and provider also leads towards a greater outcome for the development and successful completion of treatment goals and greater interactive sessions.

With regards to how race may enhance the therapeutic relationship between African-American patients and providers, there is still a dichotomy between the number of available African-American providers and those who seek treatment. Reported studies found that “black professionals make up only 2.6% of mental health clinicians in the United States, which is low considering that approximately 20% of black Americans seek mental health specialty treatment within a 12-month period.” While access to culturally diverse providers is low, the cost of mental health treatment remains high, which serves as an additional impediment to bridging the gap between the onset of symptoms and accessing professional care.

Studies show that nearly one-fourth of African Americans are uninsured, a percentage 1.5 times greater than the white rate. The average private provider (clinical social workers, psychiatrist, and psychologist) charges between $60-$300 per 45-minute session and works primarily out-of-network. Furthermore, providers typically recommend or mandate weekly sessions to ensure a rapport is continuously being built and so that they can better examine whether the services are proving to be effective for the client. On a monthly basis, mental health treatment alone can accrue an out-of-pocket cost between $120-$1,200.

Within the U.S, of the 34 million people who identify themselves as African-American, 22% live in poverty. African-Americans living below poverty are two to three times more likely to report serious psychological distress than those living above poverty. These individuals face a higher risk for developing mental disorders not solely because of their overrepresentation within the homeless population, but also due to other factors such as higher incarceration rates — African-Americans account for 60 percent of the prison population — and other systems in which they are represented in greater numbers than whites, such as foster care, welfare and an increased exposure to violent crimes.

When a private practitioner sets a rate for $200 for a therapy session, it is easily discernible who his or her target clientele will be. Yes, therapy can serve as a healthy outlet to processing emotions and thus, requires extreme care and attention to the needs of others, but it also takes extreme vulnerability, and when it costs someone that much to be vulnerable, it is simply a privilege that most people in need of mental health services cannot afford.

Providing culturally responsive treatment requires not just being aware of one’s biases and judgments or negative attitudes towards race and cultural stereotypes, but also knowing and understanding the individuals who need access to treatment and choosing to make yourself available to address the needs of those who may come from oppressed or marginalized groups by providing affordable care.

There is also a greater need to increase diversity among mental health providers. Training more African-American mental health workers may decrease the mental health gap correlated to stigma and lack of educational awareness, but this would also require getting to the core of the inadequate educational opportunities available for African-Americans along with the low college acceptance rates and the cost of tuition, which serves as barriers to gaining professional opportunities.

As a social worker myself, I got into this field knowing that this is not a lucrative venture, and I believe there should not be a monetary value placed on the quality of care that an individual receives based on their socio-economical and racial background. The health care system was built to serve the underserved and examine social injustice, yet there are still barriers set in place for those this system was designed for.

As much as I strongly encourage black women (and also black men) to seek professional care and to not be ashamed to be in need of help, I equally strongly ask and encourage the systems at play to provide greater access to the professional care that we need. If we are going to hit the nail on the head, lets make sure it’s not going directly into the coffin.

 

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If you — or someone you know — need help, please call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. If you are outside of the U.S., please visit the International Association for Suicide Prevention for a database of international resources.

 

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